One More Perspective

There are as many realities as the number of people involved. – Hubay Vica

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I am glad you are here. If this is the first time you are visiting this site, the following is a quick orientation. To read a single-perspective account of a Family’s complicated history from old Hungary to the highly-nuanced United States, please look for chapter numbering (zero to nine); the chapters build on one-another in numerical order. No chapter is meant to be a standalone one. There are also titles without a chapter designation; those are short writings about a broad range of seemingly random topics. Thank You for arriving with lovingkindness.

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#grieving

  • Octopus and Turtle

    Picture two humans of any combination…gender, race.  They are married.  If you asked each one how the relationship is going, how it’s really going, they are likely to give two distinctively different answers.  This is because there are always parallel realities where people are involved.  Marriage is a Rorschach test. In Imago Relationship Therapy, founded… Continue reading

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  • The Bigger Jar

    The world goes on whether we are living in it or not.  The sun rises whether we have the wherewithal to raise our heads or not.  Let’s do a whirlwind tour through select parts of my life: – At age 2, I was told I had to be moved to the 3-year old class because… Continue reading

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  • Art

    Sharing about their time together, my younger Son expressed his feelings about a visit to an art museum with his Brother.  He specifically had strong feelings about interpreting the modern art pieces:  “The artist is putting all of the work onto you!” my Son said.  I laughed.  Then, his statement set off a chain of… Continue reading

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  • Grief

    “I sat with my anger long enough until she told me her real name was grief.”  C.S. Lewis On first look, I am wholly unqualified to write about grief, grieving.  I lack the formal education and credentials, and everyone biologically closest to me is alive.  Fair enough!  In my effort to loop back and revisit… Continue reading

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