One More Perspective

There are as many realities as the number of people involved. – Hubay Vica


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I am glad you are here. If this is the first time you are visiting this site, the following is a quick orientation. To read a single-perspective account of a Family’s complicated history from old Hungary to the highly-nuanced United States, please look for chapter numbering (zero to nine); the chapters build on one-another in numerical order. No chapter is meant to be a standalone one. There are also titles without a chapter designation; those are short writings about a broad range of seemingly random topics. Thank You for arriving with lovingkindness.

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Chapter IX: The Opportunities

Library of Congress

I will use this chapter to capture the observations which are not new among those whose livelihood is the study and support of human development, but for me, represented a steep, protracted learning-curve. I will drop here the covers of books I have cherished along my spiritual journey of the last nineteen years, as well as insightful articles that have helped me to gain a better understanding of human relationships.

Back of Loving Your Partner Without Losing Your Self book

Living Two Lives: Married to a Man and in Love with a Woman

“After 12 years of marriage, suburban mom Joanne Fleisher fell in love with a woman and started a new life. Now a clinical social worker, Joanne has counseled hundreds of married women who are attracted to other women.

In her book, Living Two Lives: Married to a Man and in Love with a Woman, Joanne offers advice for women who are struggling with the decision to come out. “They don’t have any place to turn. They can’t really turn to their heterosexual friends because most people wouldn’t understand,” Joanne says. “And then they can’t really turn to the gay community because they don’t really feel a part of the gay community. They’re not there yet.””

https://www.learning-mind.com/narcissistic-grandmother-signs/

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2772061/?fbclid=IwAR2LU6QVRukk529oeIM6bZltau0sUr6jFfJkV8SNG3s7UieTJl5KV8VHcpE

https://psychcentral.com/pro/recovery-expert/2017/08/when-your-kids-turn-against-you-in-favor-of-the-narcissistic-parent#1

https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/abundance-mindset

Why parents should stop blaming themselves for how their kids turn out

https://ideas.ted.com/why-parents-should-stop-blaming-themselves-for-how-their-kids-turn-out/



One response to “Chapter IX: The Opportunities”

  1. […] entering their teen years.  My most heartfelt wish is that one day they fully embrace those tools (in the Opportunities Chapter; Chapter IX) and keep seeking their own path to their […]

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