One More Perspective

There are as many realities as the number of people involved. – Hubay Vica

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I am glad you are here. If this is the first time you are visiting this site, the following is a quick orientation. To read a single-perspective account of a Family’s complicated history from old Hungary to the highly-nuanced United States, please look for chapter numbering (zero to nine); the chapters build on one-another in numerical order. No chapter is meant to be a standalone one. There are also titles without a chapter designation; those are short writings about a broad range of seemingly random topics. Thank You for arriving with lovingkindness.

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March 7, 2026

Octopus and Turtle Children

In 2004, my Divorce Attorney gave me the name of a Therapist with whom she and her (by then former) Husband had done couples’ therapy. Despite their marriage ending, my Attorney believed this Therapist was invaluable in her own journey. I didn’t actually want a divorce, not any of them, I just didn’t know what… Continue reading

Love Always

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July 2, 2025

Attachment Theory with the Help of Gemini 2.5 Pro

I have been desperate to understand why, despite my number one life goal to have a healthy, secure Family of my own, my unwavering dedication to my Children’s development and wellbeing, and my deepest love for them, twenty years later I managed to arrive at the opposite. It was critical for me to disect this… Continue reading

Love Always

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